She spent the last part of her life battling drug abuse, so to hear of her passing was not so much of a shock, but at the same time it was really shocking. I couldn't believe one of most powerful singers of my time was gone! If there is any vocalist out there that was really special in my life, it was her. I think I sang this song throughout most of my childhood. It brought my family together and took me to the stage for the first time, and many many times after. I think I sang it so much that, to a lot of my family, this song still and always will remind them of me. You will always be remembered, Miss Whitney, and thanks for lots of good memories. My family and I will remember you just like this. . .
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Thursday, February 9, 2012
The Course is Up!
The Rock and Roll marathon series is hitting Seattle on June 23rd. David, Mar, and I registered for the half-marathon back in October. In years past, the 13.1 mile course started in Tukwila and went up to Seattle. This year, it's a new course and they finally announced the exact course just last week. I don't know whether to be excited or scared, but I'm surely feeling both. All the chia seeds in the world can't prepare me for my first half. Eek! Wait, I mean... Woohoo!?...
Sunday, January 29, 2012
School "Diversity" Celebration?
Culture Fair. Multicultural Night. Diversity Celebration. Every school has one, I'm sure. It's a night that is put together by the PTA, when the community gets together, everyone brings food from their own ethnicity, and kids sing songs of peace or sing songs in other languages. Kumbaya, right? Hmmm....
This year, our school's "Diversity Celebration" was cancelled due to the snow. As we are looking to reschedule, one of my colleagues sent an email out to the staff addressing this celebration. This colleague is also Filipino, and she asked the question, "What is a Diversity Celebration?" I'm usually not one to chime in on race/ethnic/cultural sensitivity talk, but just that single question really got me thinking. And throughout my thought process, I've realized that 1) it's actually more important to me than I thought, and 2) it's a much deeper issue than we make it out to be.
At surface level, some sort of cultural celebration seems great. We all think that a diversity celebration is a great way to get to know the different cultures in our community. We all think the kids are learning about how important it is to accept each other's differences. We all think we are learning about each other. But are we really? Let's get past the surface. Here's what I find as I dig a little deeper.
These days, diversity and inclusion in a school is an expectation, just like homework and attendance are expectations. Just like how at home, keeping the dishes clean is an expectation. Are you going to invite people over and have a couple of drinks because somebody at home washed the dishes? Everyone else who lives at home acknowledges and appreciates that the dishes are clean, but a whole celebration is unnecessary. Now, say you didn't wash the dishes for a whole year, and finally you washed the dishes, so you had a big celebration for it. What would your friends and family think? Weird, right? Why? Because common knowledge assumes that washing dishes is expected and to have a celebration for it is just kind of bizarre. So, let's apply that same concept to diversity as an expectation. If we are teaching each other about the value of diversity in little ways each day, the children and community can acknowledge and appreciate it, and having a whole night dedicated to celebrating it is unnecessary. If we don't teach about diversity every day and then finally have some sort of celebration, we are doing ourselves a huge disservice and giving ourselves a false sense of celebration.
Furthermore, what message does a diversity celebration send? Is it like a "Yay! We have people of color at our school!"? or "Let's try this food. It's different." As a person of color myself, these messages feel more isolating than inclusive. It's sending an "us vs. them" message. Frankly, we cannot learn about each other as people through food and song. It's just too superficial. Also, past attendance has shown that during the night celebrations, there is less diversity as many families cannot attend. So, these lead to my essential questions:
1. What is diversity?
2. What are we celebrating? Why?
3. Who is it for?
Question 3 is interesting. As I was having this diversity conversation with another colleague, a white man, he said, "Well, Cat... Have you ever read Sh*t That White People Like? It's just a list of what white people like, and diversity is one of them. It makes us feel good." This is a guy who keeps it real. He has lived in different parts of the world, married a Japanese-American, and I feel good about going to him about this stuff because he keeps it real. I approached another colleague, a black man who also keeps it real, married to a bi-racial woman, and he shared that he has always felt kind of uneasy about a diversity night. "Notice how I've never gone?" he asked. He went on to say, "I'm not going to tell them to not have it." Alright, fair.
So, is the idea of a diversity night backfiring? Assuming that diversity night is to celebrate the diverse group of people in our community, but is not reaching out to everyone, is it truly diverse?
Really, I could continue on, but don't want to be overbearing. Like I said, I didn't realize it was this important to me. Maybe it's because I'm meeting the expectation everyday, so a celebration seems unnecessary. Maybe it's time to look at our curriculum and classroom structures and ask ourselves "How am I reaching the diversity expectation every day?"
This year, our school's "Diversity Celebration" was cancelled due to the snow. As we are looking to reschedule, one of my colleagues sent an email out to the staff addressing this celebration. This colleague is also Filipino, and she asked the question, "What is a Diversity Celebration?" I'm usually not one to chime in on race/ethnic/cultural sensitivity talk, but just that single question really got me thinking. And throughout my thought process, I've realized that 1) it's actually more important to me than I thought, and 2) it's a much deeper issue than we make it out to be.
At surface level, some sort of cultural celebration seems great. We all think that a diversity celebration is a great way to get to know the different cultures in our community. We all think the kids are learning about how important it is to accept each other's differences. We all think we are learning about each other. But are we really? Let's get past the surface. Here's what I find as I dig a little deeper.
These days, diversity and inclusion in a school is an expectation, just like homework and attendance are expectations. Just like how at home, keeping the dishes clean is an expectation. Are you going to invite people over and have a couple of drinks because somebody at home washed the dishes? Everyone else who lives at home acknowledges and appreciates that the dishes are clean, but a whole celebration is unnecessary. Now, say you didn't wash the dishes for a whole year, and finally you washed the dishes, so you had a big celebration for it. What would your friends and family think? Weird, right? Why? Because common knowledge assumes that washing dishes is expected and to have a celebration for it is just kind of bizarre. So, let's apply that same concept to diversity as an expectation. If we are teaching each other about the value of diversity in little ways each day, the children and community can acknowledge and appreciate it, and having a whole night dedicated to celebrating it is unnecessary. If we don't teach about diversity every day and then finally have some sort of celebration, we are doing ourselves a huge disservice and giving ourselves a false sense of celebration.
Furthermore, what message does a diversity celebration send? Is it like a "Yay! We have people of color at our school!"? or "Let's try this food. It's different." As a person of color myself, these messages feel more isolating than inclusive. It's sending an "us vs. them" message. Frankly, we cannot learn about each other as people through food and song. It's just too superficial. Also, past attendance has shown that during the night celebrations, there is less diversity as many families cannot attend. So, these lead to my essential questions:
1. What is diversity?
2. What are we celebrating? Why?
3. Who is it for?
Question 3 is interesting. As I was having this diversity conversation with another colleague, a white man, he said, "Well, Cat... Have you ever read Sh*t That White People Like? It's just a list of what white people like, and diversity is one of them. It makes us feel good." This is a guy who keeps it real. He has lived in different parts of the world, married a Japanese-American, and I feel good about going to him about this stuff because he keeps it real. I approached another colleague, a black man who also keeps it real, married to a bi-racial woman, and he shared that he has always felt kind of uneasy about a diversity night. "Notice how I've never gone?" he asked. He went on to say, "I'm not going to tell them to not have it." Alright, fair.
So, is the idea of a diversity night backfiring? Assuming that diversity night is to celebrate the diverse group of people in our community, but is not reaching out to everyone, is it truly diverse?
Really, I could continue on, but don't want to be overbearing. Like I said, I didn't realize it was this important to me. Maybe it's because I'm meeting the expectation everyday, so a celebration seems unnecessary. Maybe it's time to look at our curriculum and classroom structures and ask ourselves "How am I reaching the diversity expectation every day?"
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Vote for Ardon and Give to Charity
Ardon just entered a remix contest. He revamped a song called All Around the World by Theophilus London. The remix that gets the most votes wins $1500, and if Ardon wins the grand prize he wants to give 100% of the proceeds to a Charity: Water. To learn more about Charity: Water, go to http://www.charitywater.org/, and don't forget to check out Ardon's remix and vote for him. Visit his blog and get more details at http://waystyles.tumblr.com/.
I'm Not Not Frugal
A few months ago, I posted about whether eating in or out is more econoic for me. The debate has been running through my head for years, yet I continue to eat out meal after meal. I'll cook a meal at home every now and again, but for the most part my meals have been prepared by somebody else and served warm right to my table, ready for me to dig in. I haven't been sure how it works out for my wallet.
Surfing the web, I came across this piece. This makes me (and my wallet) feel a bit better.
Surfing the web, I came across this piece. This makes me (and my wallet) feel a bit better.
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Antique Bathroom Update
As the city thaws out, the cabin fever is slowly going away. But all the home ideas that have been spinning through my head all snowy week long still linger. My bathroom in particular has been haunting me since I've moved into my condo 3, almost 4, years ago. After spending so much time snowed in and looking for inspiration, I finally found my bathroom style. Well, after spending so much time researching home decor, I realized how much little accessories can add up. Even little prints and picture frames can get so expensive. So in order to get my bathroom decor fix, I had to get off the computer and actually start digging. I hit up the antique store across the street on Westlake and Republican and just started looking around for whatever art they had. I knew that whatever I found would be authentic and unique. It took two trips. I went yesterday by myself, found some good stuff and slept on it. I went again today with Tin and G to get a second and third opinion, because I didn't want my bathroom to continue haunting me. After playing around with a couple of pieces, I cashed out. Lucky me, all the pieces I purchased were 50% off, so not only were they beautiful, authentic, and unique, they were super inexpensive! I'm always down for a good deal, but this was really a steal. Now the bathroom that has haunted me has turned into my little urban oasis.
Here's what it looks like as a whole bathroom. Quite honestly, sometimes I feel like I don't know what I'm doing when it comes to style. I just know what I like, and sometimes it takes a while for an idea to transfer and come to life. This wasn't exactly my vision, but I'm really pleased with the way it all turned out. I'm especially excited that I was able to find these particular pieces, and that I didn't have to spend big at a big box store. I like that each piece has unique charm and character, and they all look like there's a real story behind them. And it was all very budget friendly. Big impact for little cost. What's better than that? There's still quite a bit of wall left, so I may just add on if anything else catches my eye.
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| Before: "Let there be Peace." Blah. Yeah, great message, but I have no idea why I bought this. Well, actually it was $9, so I thought I'd go for it. When I put it in my bathroom, it wasn't what I expected it to be, but I kept it anyway. It was better than having an empty wall. |
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| During: I used my paper grocery bags to outline the frames so I could manipulate them on the wall. Heavens knows how many holes I would have made in that poor wall had I not done this. You should see my other walls. Yikes. |
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| After: Voila! So glad to have an antique shop across the street, where I bought the 4 larger frames. I wanted to play off the blue wall color. After putting the 4 frames together, I felt like I needed a 5th one. I just so happened to have an extra black frame and a picture I had taken in Hawaii, with the clear blue water. That became my 5th frame, which seems to go pretty well with the other four. Best of all, it was free! |
Here's what it looks like as a whole bathroom. Quite honestly, sometimes I feel like I don't know what I'm doing when it comes to style. I just know what I like, and sometimes it takes a while for an idea to transfer and come to life. This wasn't exactly my vision, but I'm really pleased with the way it all turned out. I'm especially excited that I was able to find these particular pieces, and that I didn't have to spend big at a big box store. I like that each piece has unique charm and character, and they all look like there's a real story behind them. And it was all very budget friendly. Big impact for little cost. What's better than that? There's still quite a bit of wall left, so I may just add on if anything else catches my eye.
Friday, January 20, 2012
2012 Deep Freeze Day 2
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| The snow angel I made in the parking lot across the street. |
Cabin Fever symptoms Day 2:
- Flipped and rotated my couch cushions.
- Re-arranged my closet.
- Organized my mail.
- Organized the refrigerator. (That was when I realized I REALLY hit rock bottom.)
- Shopped online for new home decor and made a few purchases.
- Ardon came back, and I was so excited!
- Scraped the layers of ice and snow off my poor car that hadn't been driven in 2 days.
- Ardon and I drove around the block.
- Ardon and I took a long walk around the city.
- Made grilled cheese and tomato soup.
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